Personal Space Activities | 20 Personal Space Activities for Kids
While talking about personal space with kids is great, it’s real-world application that will help the important lesson sink in.
These personal space activities for kids are a great way for kids to learn how to respect the personal space of others and work on protecting their own personal space.
A little low pressure, intentional, playful learning will always help drive home an important topic. (These personal space activities would also work well as a way to get the conversation started.)
Finding activities that were designed for teaching personal space was tricky. I’ve searched out a list of kid activities that can be modified and used as personal space activities.
If you have some others in mind please add them in the comments.
Personal Space Activities for Kids to Learn About Their Body
When kids feel comfortable with their bodies, understand their bodies and can identify parts of their body it will make defining and defending their personal space easier.
Saying, “Your hand is really close to my face, will you back up a bit.” will be much easier if they know what a hand and face are. 🙂 The following activities are pretty similar. Look through them all and see which one will work best for your family. (Or mix and match ideas!)
- Hokey Pokey Roll & Sing – I Can Teach My Child
- All About Me Bones – Confidence Meets Parenting
- Dem Bones Skeleton Yoga – Playful Learning
- Life Size Body Art – Candice Ashment Art
- Self Portraits for Kids – Hands On: As We Grow
Personal Space Activities for Kids to Study Body Language
Reading body language plays a HUGE part in personal space and it can be a pretty difficult subject to teach.
I’ve compiled a few ideas and added tips on how to use them to start practicing the art of understanding body language.
- Emotional Animals Game – How Sweeter It Is. This game is fantastic! And simple (we love simple right?) If you don’t want to make blocks, just tape the words onto dice. Each time your little one works to figure out how to show an emotion they are putting conscious effort into learning about body language (and having fun at the same time).
- Funny body parts – Playing and Learning Begins at Home. This silly game would be a great way to start looking at body language in pictures. Try to provide pictures that show real emotion. Ask your kids to design an angry person, an excited person, and a sad person. Talk about how they can tell the person is feeling that way. Is it their eyes? Or maybe the position of their hands?
- Pipe Cleaner People – Use Your Coloured Pencils. I found a few different versions of pipe cleaner people, this one really spoke to me as a way to show body language. It would make a really fun personal space activity. Start by forming 3 or 4 people. Give their bodies dramatic language. Ask you kids to find the person who is excited, sad, uncomfortable. Have them position the people as though in a story. This guy is too close, so she looks uncomfortable.
- Simple Stop Action – Inner Child Fun. Once you have the pipe cleaner people made you can add even more personal space practice by creating a simple stop action movie that they can watch again and again!
- Facial Expressions Decoded – Love To Know Autism. This link takes you to a printable facial expression decoding activity.
Personal Space Activities for Kids to Practice Communication
When kids are learning about personal space they need to be able to communicate what they want and need. They must also be able to hear the needs and wants of others. These activities are great ways to practice communicating.
- Promoting Communication with Pretend Play – Teach Preschool
- Simon Says Drawing – The Artful Parent
- Conversation Starters – Bounceback Parenting
- Paper Plate Emotions – No Time for Flash Cards
- Establish a Chatting Spot – Modern Parents Messy Kids
Personal Space Activities for Kids to Play with Space
This list of games and activities allows you to experiment with personal space in a fun way. Make sure that while you are playing you pay attention to body language and practice communicating how it feels to have someone in that space.
- Rabbit Hole – The Inspired Tree House
- Teamwork activities – Confidence Meets Parenting
- Control – O – Meter – Autism Teaching Strategies
- Hip Waddle – Parenting (page 9)
- Newspaper Dancing – Mrs.King Rocks
Bonus! Personal Space Books for Kids
Books are a great way to approach uncomfortable topics. I found two books that come at personal space from different angles. These are affiliate links.
- Personal Space Camp
by Julia Cook shares a journey of a boy who learns strategies for respecting other peoples personal space. There is even a light bulb moment where he realizes how others might feel about him being in their space.
- Miles is the Boss of His Body by Samantha Kurtzman-Counter and Abbie Shiller follows a boy on his birthday. Out of love, his family touches him all day. Tossing his hair, big birthday hugs, cheek pinches and innocent tickles come from all over. In the end he tells them to stop and asks not to be touched. His family is proud of him for protecting his body. I love this message!
These 20 personal space activities for kids should get you started! Add more to the comments or just let us know which ones are working for your family.
What a fantastic article!!!! Thank you for sharing these ideas and our Rabbit Hole Activity! We love the new twist that you put on the activity!!
I’m up looking for new ideas, new inspiration, and new activities for very, very active bored children. These ideas and links are fabulous! Thank you!
This would be fantastic for teachers/therapists working with social skills groups- passing on to all my SLP friends!
whats SLP
Speech Language Pathologist
What a fantastic idea! Teach them young and with good habits and gain confidence. Shame so many adult’s still don’t understand the personal space aspect.
thank you
very good…..
hi my names kynm im 14 and i have ADHD and i dont like like my personal space being invaded other wise that person might get punched in the face but not on purpose please email me if you have any suggestions for me thank you for reading this this will help me a lot
Hi Kynm! I’m so glad you wrote and what a fantastic question. I love that you are looking for solutions to something that is uncomfortable for you. I want to start out by saying that I don’t have any experience with ADHD, because of that I may miss important points in my answer.
Whenever I have a part of my life or myself that I want to address I do my best to nail it down to a specific problem. That makes it easier to find solutions. You might try making a list of times when you feel the most tense because of people in your space. Is it when you are switching classes and everyone is moving through the school quickly? Is it on the bus or at the lunch tables? Is it at home, maybe a sibling sitting too close while you play a game.
Once you have the list you can start to think through solutions (one at a time). Of course some solutions might work for more than one situation. I find that knowing ahead of time what I want to say or do helps me in the actual moments of tension.
If you have a parent, friend or teacher you are comfortable talking to about this, it’s great have someone who can listen to your ideas, give you more ideas and check in with you to see how it’s going.
I hope this was helpful.
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Great article!How do you teach this to a toddler under two? She likes her space like her parents but sometimes she is curious. Now that she’s bigger and is not carried as often, she doesn’t understand that her body language is an open invitation for ppl / in laws/relatives to keep getting in her space or do what they want. Which I am not comfortable with. As it can get invasive or overbearing. When she does show that she is not interested, ppl, will still follow, continue, or try different tactics.. Are you able to email me privately?
Thank you.